How to game really hot girls - do 9s and 10s require a different approach?

In this edition of my blog series “Rokker shares his views on”: How to game really hot girls - do 9s and 10s require a different approach?
The simple answer is yes… and no ;). First of all, I think it’s so funny when people say that it isn’t harder to game 9s or 10s compared to “regular girls”. Of course it’s harder! I’ll tell you exactly why that is:

1) There aren’t as many 9s or 10s in any given location as there is 6s, 7s or 8s, in other words fewer girls to game per night (or during the day).

2) When you consider a girl a 9 or a 10, you also already consider her to have more value to you than a girl you’d rate lower. THIS IS KEY, because this usually affects your behavior.

3) With real 9s and 10s you compete against sport superstars, actors and mega celebrities. In other words, high value guys are no scarce resource for her. In the end, this means that she won’t put up with you making as many mistakes and fuck ups as you might get away with while interacting with a less attractive girl.

The Real Key
The real key to gaming 9’s and 10’s is in your head. You see, when people say that getting hot girls isn’t harder – just different – that ASSUMES a few things; most importantly that you also consider yourself to have the same value as the girl. This is vital… if you for one second doubt that you don’t have as much value as the girl or don’t deserve the girl (and let that show) it’s game over. YOU GOT TO BELIEVE THAT YOU DESERVE HER.

I do agree that technically (in other words, outer game wise), there’s no difference gaming a really hot girl. She will respond to the exact same attraction triggers and switches as the super ugly girl will. You might have to spike a bit harder or more times since really hot girls are generally less reactive (since they are surrounded by high value guys… so they recognize high value behavior and is used to it. Whenever we become used to something, we react less to it), but apart from that you shouldn’t have to act differently when interacting with super hot girls. Attractive behavior is attractive behavior. In fact, what stops a lot of guys from getting laid with 9s and 10s is that they change their game and how they behave because they are gaming a hot girl. Don’t do that! Believe in your abilities and what you know works.

Social Proof and Pre-Selection
Social proof and pre-selection are the two most important attraction switches when gaming super hot girls. A really hot girl is not going to give you the time of the day if you don’t display attractive behavior right off the bat (I’m generalizing here, every “rule” has its exception) and ooze “Girls love me”. Another tendency I’ve noticed in super hot girls is that many get really jealous too, so jealousy plotlines, willingness to walk away (pre-selection) and hammering standard pre-selection usually works really well. Hot girls just can’t lose an attractive guy to a girl she consider to be less attractive than her… freaks her out.

Social proof is important as hot girls are always “networking” and desperately (again, a generalization) wants to climb the social ladder. If you can demonstrate that you are well-connected and socially proofed, this is a major attraction spike (and really doesn’t differ from gaming a less hot girl… it’s just a main focus when gaming a super hottie). Something I’ve had a lot of success with too is “infiltrating” her social circle before gaming her. In other words, get to know the people she hangs out with and then run social circle game. That’s why I’m super excited about Mr M and Braddocks SMC (Social Circle Mastery) course, that shit can really up your lay rate with super hot girls. This can all be done in either slow boil game (getting into her social circle for real) or even the same night (getting to know the crew and then being introduced to your target). That’s by far the best way to cold approach a hot girl. I’m not saying standard cold approach game doesn’t work on 9s and 10s, but I’m saying that taking the route through her friends have a higher success rate for me. But wait, isn’t that contradictorily to sucking her into your reality? Not really. Basically, instead of inviting just her, you invite her friends too. That’s the easiest way I can describe it without taking up too much space in this article.

9s and 10s are less reactive
As I mentioned before, hot girls are used to having high value guys around them. That doesn’t mean that the guys don’t try to impress them – they do that shit all the time. So they know how to stay unreactive to “DHV attempts”, because they are bombarded with them on a daily basis. What’s key here is that you adapt the “10 mentality” and are not affected by her unreactiveness. Again, this is where inner game comes in. You got to be able to “plow through it” and just assume that even though she’s super hot she’s still mega attracted to you. That’s why 10 game is all in your head, if you can stay unreactive to her unreactiveness (whooo mind games!!!) at least half of the battle is won. Other than that, most guys have a harder time pulling the trigger because they don’t want to mess anything up. Well guess what; not pulling the trigger is what stops you from getting laid. Again, if you BELIEVE THAT YOU DESERVE HER, pulling the trigger isn’t an issue anymore… even if she’s ridiculously hot. Get rid of the escalation anxiety, be willing to walk away and have an abundance mentality.

Summary
In essence, this is what 10 game is about:

• Inner game, deservingness, not changing your “standard” game or attractive behavior
• What you consider your own value to be
• Abundance mentality
• Unreactiveness
• Social proof and Pre-selection
• Did I mention your image of your own value and deservingness?

- R